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The question he still asks after forty years

Connection Regret·All ages

Two years after his wife died, he still wakes with the same question: What can I do today to make her day a little easier? The habit outlived her. While she was alive he never skipped it — coffee poured first, shoes lined up, car keys quietly moved into his own pocket. What held the marriage together was not the anniversaries but one question asked every morning.

When you wake up in the morning, think, 'What can I do to make her day or his day just a little happier?'

— Cornell Legacy Project interviews

TODAY’S PRACTICE

This morning, name one thing that will make your partner's day one percent better.

#MorningQuestion#SmallKindness#Daily

SOURCE

Karl Pillemer, 30 Lessons for Living (Farnam Street summary)

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