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When talk stalls, leave the house

Connection Regret·All ages

Same house, same table, same face, same sentence for three hours. Gary, seventy-five, said to his wife, "Let's get out of the house." For twenty minutes around the block they didn't mention the problem. They talked about a tree and the neighbor's dog. Back at the table, they heard each other for the first time. Change the room and the volume changes with it.

If you are having trouble discussing something, get out of the house.

— Gary, 75

TODAY’S PRACTICE

Move a stuck conversation to a twenty-minute walk. Conclusions happen outdoors.

#ChangeTheRoom#WalkAndTalk#Unstuck

SOURCE

Cornell Legacy Project interview

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