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The letters she never sent saved her marriage
Connection Regret·All ages
Antoinette is eighty-one. When anger at her husband boiled over, she sat down and wrote long letters — every complaint, every insult. Then she put them in a drawer. The next morning she read them again and, almost every time, threw them away. "Half of it was my exhaustion," she said. "The other half was a story I had written by myself." A letter becomes an invoice when sent, and medicine when burned.
When I became terribly upset, I would sit down and write long letters to my husband, put them aside, read them the next day — and then throw them away.
— Antoinette, 81
TODAY’S PRACTICE
Write the letter tonight, read it tomorrow morning, then throw it away.
#WriteItDown#SleepOnIt#Anger
SOURCE
Cornell Legacy Project interview
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